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Just posting to say that I was shy at school and people also assumed I was stuck up or thought I was too good for them. I want to appear friendlier but I don't know how, I'm polite and take an interest in people, rarely talk about myself, what am I doing wrong! I feel people see me and assume I must be loud and confident and then when I am quiet they think 'Oh she must think she is too good for us to speak to us'. I just don't like that some people view me as stuck up because of I am both quiet and attractive. I have no issues with my appearance, and I don't want to be friends with those *****y girls who obsess over make-up and stuff like that. Thank you for your response, though I don't think you really got what I was saying. and now nearly 2.5 years on and we are still having fun!!! I had a nice amount of friends - never properly 100% true I suppose, but when I was 16 a boy noticed me. I just got on with my life, and just acted me. It is clearer the way he describes it all. I don't mean it harshly, but just get on with life, and know that you can be happy who you are. They are only a proper friend if they like you, for you. Who cares what you look like? In the case of men, it is better they fall in love with you for who you are not just how you look!Īnyway, they will not be your real friends if they go by how you look. Ok, it's the girls who wear make-up and are popular who are the ones who I dislike the most. You're a cocky ***** who thinks she's god's gift. Best advice I can give is to do things you love so that you give off positive vibes and you'll meet people that way. Or guys would get super passive aggressive. Sometimes people would act all shy around me, especially girls. oh wellĪnyway thanks in advance to helpful answers. I'm sure I will get some abuse for calling myself attractive because having decent self esteem clearly means I am a cocky ***** who thinks she is god's gift. How can I stop projecting this image? I'm not arrogant or stuck up, I'm just quiet, but I do want to get to know people! I feel as though if I were average looking I would have more friends because girls either have that weird *****y thing where they hate other girls who are pretty (even though they are gorgeous themselves) or they see me as cold/un interested and as though I think I'm better than them or something.

This made me quite sad as I get the feeling I must project this image of being stuck up or something when I am not. I've been told by one girl who I got to know while we were both wasted that she used to see me as quite intimidating before she got to know me because I didn't say much and was so 'pretty'. Problem is, most of the girls I know are either very *****y and extremely concerned about self-image etc or they just don't want to know me. I find I get along a lot easier with guys than girls, though I would quite like some female friends.

I'm quite quiet, not really shy just don't talk that much. I've always had friends but these days they are few and far between apart from a couple of really good friends that I have had since I was about 13. I've never been one of the popular girls and I didn't become 'attractive' (in my opinion) until I was about 16/17. I just wondered if anyone else is in a similar position as me.